this guy and i have been talking for about a month... met over myspace... and we talk on the phone almost every night for hours. the only problem is... he wants to meet up and have a 'blind date' ... and i'm not gunna lie, i'm not a toothpick. i'm one of those curvy girls... i have pictures on myspace but only of my face... and people always tell me what a pretty face i have... you can see my picture on myspace:
my myspace url is
myspace.com/msugirl_09
so how should i let him know i'm 'fluffy'?
oh, and he's on the chubbier side too... but hes in a fraternity and im scared he'd want approval from his brothers.
please be honest%26lt;3 thanks
Blind date through myspace?
I think you should go for it. I am going to be a guy and I am going to be blunt. If you dont like your weight do something about it. But in the mean time you are what you are so try to go after this guy. If it doesnt work screw it, he is shallow. I wouldnt worry about what his brothers think because you cant control that. Try and win them over with personality but if he is tight with them it will matter what they think so dont kid yourself and think it wont. Also all your pictures are of when you were a kid, WTF are you talking about?
Blind date through myspace?
My opinion: Anyone who seeks approval from their friends about a date (looks or whatever) isn't good for you. Besides, even if he wasn't in a fraternity, he should accept you for who you are whether your chubby or not. If he don't accept you for who you are, then he's a looser.
Blind date through myspace?
And how old are you?
Blind date through myspace?
How old r ya?
And i think the whole myspace blind -- date %26amp; meeting up thing..isnt cool at all..but if your ok with it then do w/e you want.
Well to answer your question..i'll say just joke around with it..just bring up a convo about chubby people..and have fun then say something fast like [yeah but nothing is rong with big gurls..you mite not kno but im a lil thick] or [ laugh with it and be like o im sorta a big gurl too..wait till you see me =] ]
idk..do whatever..just dont make it sound to serious..
Blind date through myspace?
well .. i guess if he takes others opinion in dating he sux .. but anyway before you go to that date .. why don't you show him u pics .. and not only ur face your whole body .. and see if he's seeking the goold look or you then if he asks you to the date again so go ahead why not !
good luck
Blind date through myspace?
okay, for the chubby thing, be honest with him. Tell him you're not one of those perfectly shaped girls. If he doesn't aprove, don't meet him. Ever.
BUT LISTEN TO ME ON THIS ONE!!
have a friend go with you. They only have to go long enough to see that he's not an old guy looking for a thrill. So you can still be alone with him for all but a few minutes but you'll also be safe.
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